Admit it: you’re struggling with an important decision about your wedding. You want to plan the kind of wedding that your friends and family will be talking about for years to come – but you don’t want to bankrupt your savings just to do it. That’s why you’re considering slashing the cocktail reception altogether. After all, that single hour of an open bar and hors d’oeuvres can save you thousands of dollars – so why is there a need for a cocktail reception before dinner?
Don’t be too quick to forgo the cocktail reception – take a look at the following reasons why you may want to keep that hour sandwiched between your ceremony and reception:
- The cocktail reception gives you and your wedding party the chance to sneak away with the photographer for posed pictures. This is especially important if you’re holding your ceremony and reception in the same area, as you don’t want your guests wandering around without anything to do. The cocktail reception keeps your wedding guests happy while you and your new hubby take all the cute pictures you want together as a newly wed couple.
- A cocktail reception puts your guests in a happy and relaxed mood. Remember, your wedding is as much about your guests as it is about you and your new husband. Some of your guests may have even spent the last hour or two on the road before your ceremony. The cocktail hour is the first chance your guests may have for a bite to eat, to relax and start getting in the party mood.
- A cocktail reception gives your guests the time to socialize with friends and introduce themselves to one another before they start getting seated for the reception. Having your guests break the ice is a critical part of ensuring that your wedding is a hit. After all, you don’t want the ice breaking to occur when you’re ready to hit the dance floor – you want your guests to jump out there as soon as the music starts playing!
As you can see, having the cocktail reception is a critical part of throwing a memorable and fun wedding. But if you want to save money on your cocktail reception, ask your venue if they can include it with the overall price of the venue. If not, forgo the happy hour and have a cash bar instead. It’s a great way to enjoy the benefits of a cocktail hour without spending thousands of dollars on alcohol.